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Counselors' Favorites

Prepared by the Primary and Intermediate School Counselors of the Bridgewater-Raritan School District


Feelings

Today I Feel Silly and Other Methods That Make My Day by Jamie Lee Curtis

Sometimes I Feel Like A Mouse: A Book About Feelings by Jeanne Modesitt

The Way I Feel by Janan Cain

Feelings: From Sadness To Happiness by Nuria Roca and Rosa Maria Curto

Mr. Worry: A Story About OCD by Holly L. Niner

Don’t Be Afraid to Drop by Julia Cook

Rising Above the Storm Clouds: What It’s Like to Forgive by Robert D. Enright


Anger Management

Don’t Pop Your Cork On Monday by Adolph Moser, Ed.D.
Andrew’s Angry Words by Dorothea Lachner

The Quarreling Book by Charolette Zolotow

Mad Isn’t Bad by Michaelene Mundy

When Sophie Gets Angry – Really, Really Angry by Molly Bang


Friendship

My Friends and Me by Pat Thomas

Bernstein Bear’s Trouble With Friends by Stan and Jan Bernstein

Rockabye Crocodile by Jose Aruego and Arianne Dewey

When I Care About Others by Cornelia Maude Spelman

How To Be A Friend by Marc T. Brown, Lawrence Brown, Marc T. Brown and Laurie K. Brown

Friends by Helma Heine

One Smile by Cindy McKinley

Henry and the Kite Dragon by Bruce Edward Hall


Conflict Resolution and Bullying

The Brand New Kid by Katie Couric

The Recess Queen by Alexis O’Neill

Hey, Little Ant by Phillip and Hannah Hoose

Why Mosquitoes Buzz In People’s Ears by Verna Aardema

King Of The Playground by Phyllis Naylor

Simon’s Hook by Karen Gedig Burnett

Alice And Greta by Steven J. Simmons

Greta’s Revenge by Steven Simmons

How to Lose All Your Friends by Nancy Carlson

Too Perfect by Trudy Ludwig

Our Friendship Rules by Peggy Moss and Dee Dee Tardif

Trouble Talk by Trudy Ludwig

Sorry by Trudy Ludwig

Circle of Three by Elizabeth Brokemp

The Case of the Lunchroom Spy by Susan DeBell

My Secret Bully by Trudy Ludwig

Oliver Button Is a Sissy by Tomie dePaola

Simon’s Hook: A Story About Teases and Put-Downs by Karen Gedig Burnett

The Hallo-Wiener by Dav Pilkey

Bully B.E.A.N.S. by Julia Cook


Divorce and Separation

Where is Daddy? Story of Divorce by Beth Goff

The Divorce Workbook: A Guide For Kids and Families by S. Ives, D. Fassler and M. Lash

My Family’s Changing by Pat Thomas

What is Family? by Gretchen Super

What Kind of Family Do You Have? by Gretchen Super


Impulsivity

Learning to Slow Down and Pay Attention by Kathleen G. Nadeau, Ph.D & Ellen B. Dixon, Ph.D

Sometimes I Drive My Mom Crazy, But I Know She’s Crazy About Me: A Self-Esteem Book for ADHD Children by Lawrence E. Shapiro, Ph.D

It’s Hard to be a Verb by Julia Cook


Siblings

A Pocketful of Kisses by Audrey Penn


Self-Esteem

I’m Gonna Like Me: Letting Off A Little Self-esteem by Jamie Lee Curtis

Dandelion by Don Freeman

The Feel Good Book by Todd Parr

Hooray For You! A Celebration of Youness by Marianne Richmond

Perfectly You by Julia V. Taylor


Social Skills

Bernstein Bears Forget Their Manners by Stan and Jan Bernstein

Words Are Not For Hurting by Elizabeth Verdick

The Boy Who Wouldn’t Share by Mike Reiss

Personal Space Camp by Julia Cook


Grief

A Story for Hippo: A Book About Loss by Simon Puttock

When Dinosaurs Die by Marc Brown

The Fall of Freddie The Leaf by Leo Buscaglia

The Tenth Good Thing About Barney by Judith Viorst

I Had a Friend Named Peter: Talking To Children About The Death of A Friend by Janice Cohn, DSW

Sad Isn’t Bad by Michaelene Mundy

I Miss You: A First Look At Death by Pat Thomas

Moonshadow’s Journey by Gillian Lobel

Samantha Jane’s Missing Smile by Julie Kaplow

A Child’s Grief Journey by Amy Joy Barry

Lifetimes by Bryan Mellanie and Robert Ingpen

Gentle Willow by Joyce C. Mills, Ph.D

The Tenth Good Thing About Barney by Judith Viorst

When Someone You Love Has Cancer: A Guide to Help Kids Cope by Alaric Lewis, OSB


Respect for Differences

It’s Okay to Be Different by Todd Parr

The Sneetches by Dr. Suess

The Terrible Things by Eve Bunting

We’re Different, We’re the Same by Bobbi Jane Kates

We Are All Alike, We Are All Different by Scholastic, Inc.

Stellaluna by Janell Cannon

Whoever You Are by Mem Fox

Chester’s Way by Kevin Henkes

What’s Wrong With Timmy? by Maria Shriver

Hooway for Wodney Wat by Helen Lester

Eggbert, the Slightly Cracked Egg by Tom Ross

Odd Velvet by Mary E. Whitcomb

Colorful World by CeCe Winans, Keith Thomas, & Alvin Love III


Adoption

Tell Me Again About The Night I Was Born by Jamie Lee Curtis

Zachary’s New Home: A Story For Foster and Adopted Children by P. and G. Blomquist


Self Identity and Self Improvement

Oliver Button Is A Sissy by Tomie de Paola

A Bad Case of the Stripes by David Shannon

Bernstein Bears’ Bad Habit by Stan and Jan Bernstein

A Bad Case of Tattle Tongue by Julia Cook

Don’t Squeal Unless It’s a Big Deal: A Tale of Tattletales by Jeanie Franz Ransom


Positive Thinking

The Little Engine That Could by Watty Piper

Miss Rumphius by Barbara Cooney

Today Was A Terrible Day by Patricia Reilly Giff

A Difficult Day by Eugenie Fernandes

Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day by Judith Viorst


My Body Belongs to Me

Your Body Belongs to You by Cornelia Spelman


Honesty

Pinky’s Promise by Vanita Braver, Ed.D


Perspectives

The True Story of the 3 Little Pigs! By Jon Scieszka

How Do I Stand in Your Shoes by Susan DeBell, Ph.D


Rules and Safety

Officer Buckle and Gloria by Peggy Rathmann


Assessment/Standardized Testing

Testing Miss Malarkey by Judy Finchler


Parenting Resources

Unwritten Rules of Friendship by Natalie Madorsky Elman & Eileen Kennedy-Moore

It’s So Much Work to Be Your Friend by Richard Lavoie

1-2-3 Magic by Thomas W. Phelan

Hope and Healing: Peaceful Parenting In An Uncertain World by Naomi Drew

What Do We Say? What Do We Do? by Dr. Dorothy Rich

Queen Bee’s and Wanna Be’s by Rosalind Wiseman

Problem Child or Quirky Kid? by Rita and John Somers-Flanagan

Speaking of Divorce by Roberta Beyer and Kent Winchester

Helping Your Child Make Friends by Lawrence Shapiro

Learning Disorders: A Guide for Parents and Teachers by William Feldman, MD

A Mind At A Time by Mel Levine, MD

The Magical Thought of Grieving Children by James Fogarty